So you have survived the trials and tribulations of the internet dating sites and bagged yourself a couple of dates with your ideal partner. You have date number three coming up and you are hopeful that it is the right time for sleeping together. It isn’t too much to ask is it? After all, you would have run a mile if she had suggested it on the first date, I mean there is no fun if there is no chase right?
So tonight is the night but what can you do to make sure everything goes well? You could just wing it, after all there is nothing wrong with that but don’t forget the 6 P’s. What is the 6 P’s I hear you ask? This is a little saying I have when things could have been done better with a little forethought. Perfect Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance! It does exactly what is says on the tin, if you prepare before your date you can take steps to prevent a disaster.
I am in no way suggesting that you are not good in bed, but if it has been a while then let’s face it, it could be over before it has even begun! The first thing to do is masturbate before your date. About an hour before your date is about right to give some relief and ensure you last longer in bed. This also allows you to make the right impression and not leave her disappointed.
Don’t rush your date. If you are meeting for a drink beforehand, don’t rush through it and give the impression that you just want her in bed, even if this is the case. Take the time to impress and put her at ease but don’t let her have too much alcohol. Drunk sex is great but you want the first night to be remembered for all the right reasons and not pass you both by in a drunken haze.
Don’t rush things when you get down to the naughty stuff. The female body needs preparation before sex and if things are rushed, not only will she not be satisfied but the impression you leave may not be a good one. First time sex is the ideal time to discover what turns each other on, what your partner likes and dislikes. This isn’t a topic of conversation but more of a discovery through the senses. Make sure you pay maximum attention to the signals she gives as this will tell you what she likes most, which will also help her to relax so you can both enjoy fantastic mind blowing sex that you will both want to repeat.
Lastly, but most importantly, try to make sure she has an orgasm. Showing her that you don’t just think of yourself when it comes to sex is a sure fire way to make her want you more and this is often where a lot of guys fail to make a great impression in bed.